So Saturday I was lounging around my apartment when my bf (currently my exbf) decided to call me.
Well we kinda got in a small arguement because my dad doesnt agree with me paying for everything...Ending with me hanging up on him.
He called back twice but I didnt answer and he left blank voice mails.
The third time he called I answered so my phone would quit singing to me.
I asked who he was with and he gave me names and when he said one guys name he yelled at mark not to give me his name because he didnt want that (Insert derogatory word here) To know his name...Resulting in me hanging up on him again.
He called a few times but I ignored them.
He called again after like 10 minutes and asked if I was upset and when I said yes he asked me why...all i said back was really youve got to be kidding me...and hung up on him a third time.
Excuse
*When he called back about five seconds later he left me a long voicemail saying that he didnt think it would work out because he didnt have money and i ALWAYS want to go somewhere...*
Well there was more but i didnt listen to it all and called him all he said when i asked him about it is im always with my mom and cant ask for money when i told him to get a job it helps he said he was trying right after one of the people he was with said the same thing...He had the nerve to put me on speaker and he knows i hate being on speaker...So i hung up on him yet again.
I'm sure he got the picture because he didnt call back again.
My Step-dad is a little heated about the whole situation and how he went about breaking up with me. The whole voicemail thing is kind of like a text message or a facebook message/post to my dad;which means its cowardly, disrespectful, and unethnical.
I get what you mean completely about it being cowardly. I had an ex who did the same thing and I understand that he was in Hawaii when he wanted to break up but he sent it through a text and a message on myspace.
ReplyDeleteNow I know i'm done with getting upset about it. It takes time that's for sure. There isn't much great advice I can give you besides keep your chin up and prove to him and every one else that your better than that and one day, maybe soon, you'll meet a guy who really is worth arguing but won't argue with you for that reason.
My point; you'll prove him wrong and every one else that seems to think you're in a gang or pregnant. It's really all you can do. :)
yeah im getting fed up with the immaturity and rumors and i still have to tell my dad about all of this crap.
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